to live, to experience and to share
In: inspiration
3 Feb 2010If you ever consider to own a blog and you put it aside afterward then you might like this. The reasons I like to blog are:
1. I like to take notes.
I found that taking note helps me to remember the lessons I just learn. Before blogging platforms were popular (or even before the Internet was a hit), I wrote quite a lot from daily activities to fiction. (yes, I even believe that I may be a writer one day) There are times when I need to tidy up my drawer, I saw my notes and I reread them. I found that I was so silly (most of the times) and surprised that I did that. So, those notes are proofs that I grow, learn and mature from day to day. And, knowing that is a prize for me, to keep me to be stronger and wiser.
2. I can straighten my thoughts before any interuptions.
Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy to be accompanied, but I lost track after interuptions. Well, I still need to improve my focus too though. This process is like making the thread inside my head straight. I can have many threads inside, and sometimes I work on different threads at once. Thus writing helps me a lot.
3. I like to play with words.
I don’t have particular language or literature studies. But I have great interest in language, I like to learn different way in expressing something.
4. I like to tell stories.
Having younger brother makes me used to tell him about many things.
5. Last one and most important is I wish to inspire others through my writing.
It’s a very big dream for me. It’s tge fact that everyone grows with differently like culture or live on the other side of the world. But there are chances to have similar problem. I always believe that the chances are still quite high. By sharing my thoughts or my experince, I will increase my chance to closer to my dream. I’m working it through.
In conclusion, if you want to have your own blog yet you keep hesitate to start or keep procrastinating, you may want to spend some time to contemplate what are the things that you like. It’s easier to do something that you like.
Happy blogging!
In: recommendation
3 Feb 2010It’s not a new book yet some of them have been published years before, but below are books that I read on 2009:
Plus one,
The Devil and Miss Prym, Paulo Coelho
In: personal
2 Feb 2010Inspired by some blogs I read that said one of many ways to feel good is appreciating what we have completed. Therefore, I’m going to list 50 things I achieved within last year which can be categorized into different groups:
On setting new adventure:
1. Quitting my job
I made a bold decision on late 2008, to quit from my work place. My parents, especially my father objected to it. He had his reason, recession just hit South East Asia countries. But in the end, my parents supported my decision.
2. Going abroad by myself
My next plan was looking for a job, of course. One of my best friend from university asked me whether I’m interested to work abroad. Since I have nothing to lose, I decided to give it a try.
3. Being closer to friends from the past
As an active student during my study made me know many people including my juniors. I’m not that close with them personally unless I worked with them for instance event committee although I’m making friends with them. Thankfully and unexpectedly they helped me a lot through the initial stage.
4. Making new friends
Part of new journey, I met lots of new friends. It’s friend of friend and so on. And yes, soon enough you’ll learn that how small the world is. The person that you just met, maybe know some people you have known. And somehow I’m happy to know it. It feels like you are still connected to your past, in a good way, which help you to keep your feet on the ground
In: best quote
31 Jan 2010(or TV series, or books, or world leader)
Admiral Adama: In your opinion, off the record, what was Garner’s flaw?
Major Lee Adama: He was used to working with machines. Command is about people. (Battlestar Galactica-RDM)
“All man’s troubles come from not knowing. how to sit still in one room.” (Pascal, 1670)
+”and when to sit still” (Ajahn Brahm)
“It’s going to be legen.. wait for it.. dary! ” (Barney-HIMYM)
“Life is always about the journey, never be the destination. Because once we reach there, we want to be somewhere else.” (Ajahn Brahm)
“Instead of asking why, ask how” (Anonymous)
“Life is a journey. Imagine playing an RPG game with you as the main character. You will have a journey, gain experiences and levels, make choices, meet companions, fight bosses. The differences are no saving points, no FAQs, no turning back and the journey is once in a life time. Therefore everyday will be an adventure for me.” (Me)
“Success is a lousy teacher. It seduces people into thinking they can’t lose.” (Bill Gates)
“Our time is limited, so don’t waste time living someone else’s life.” (Steve Jobs)
“What!!” (Tenth Doctor, Doctor Who – 2006)
“Fantastic!” (Ninth Doctor, Doctor Who – 2005)
“Humankind cannot gain anything without first giving something in return. To obtain, something of equal value must be lost. That is Alchemy’s First Law of Equivalent Exchange. In those days, we really believed that to be the world’s one, and only, truth. But the world isn’t perfect, and the law is incomplete. Equivalent Exchange doesn’t encompass everything that goes on here, but I still choose to believe in its principle: that all things do come at a price, that there’s an ebb and a flow, a cycle, that the pain we went through did have a reward, and that anyone who’s determined and perseveres will get something of value in return, even if it’s not what they expected. I don’t think of Equivalent Exchange as a law of the world any more. I think of it as a promise between my brother and me. A promise that someday we’ll see each other again.”
(Alphonse Elric – Full Metal Alchemist)
“Live as if your were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. ” (Gandhi)
“It’s not who I am underneath, but what I *do* that defines me. ” (Batman – Batman Begins 2005)
“The art of losing isn’t hard to master; so many things seem… f… filled… with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster. Lose something every day. Accept the fluster of lost door keys, the hour badly spent. The art of losing isn’t hard to master. I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster, some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent. I miss them, but it wasn’t a disaster. Even losing you… the joking voice, a gesture I love… I shan’t have lied. It’s evident the art of losing’s not.too hard to master though’it may look like… Write it!… like disaster.” (Maggie Feller – In Her Shoes 2005)
In: attitude
27 Jan 2010Lately, I was so stressed, I didn’t know what made me stress and I was quite desperate to find out what made me stress.
Is it my work load? Work has been busy as always, writing code, designing system, debugging and testing, you name it. But I believe that I’m still coping it.
Is it my schedule? I schedule myself to exercise on even days, Tue-Thurs-Sat. It was just started for the last three weeks. Is the schedule too rush for me? I don’t think so. When I tried to skip the exercise part, I feel that my whole body was even more tired.
Is it my hobbies? I admit that I like to play games more often than I used to be. I play games on the browser as well as on iPhone. But, it seems this habit happened because I was so desperate to find out what made me feel stress.
In: inspiration
21 Jan 2010I’ve been joining twitter for quite some time, but started to tweet actively within the last two months. I stumbled across some great articles (but somehow I forgot to bookmark it). This is one of my favourite for this week – The Most Beautiful Word in the English Language.
Enjoy it! Wish you as inspired as I am.
In: attitude
15 Jan 2010Yes! Starting something new does not recognize “late” in its dictionary. But, why most of us keep delaying ourselves on doing something new? Before telling my own experience, I would like to share a story inspired from my daily life (I changed the name of subjects to keep it anonymous) with a little bit modification.
Meet Mandy, she is charming, cheerful, energetic and she do not really like quiet environment. She shares a flat with her friends, Maria and Michelle. Most of the time when she saw Michelle is doing something in her room, she will ask her what she was doing, and why she was so quiet. Michelle told her that she works on her personal projects. (That question was the ice breaker only though) Then she kept talking that how bored she was.
In: inspiration
28 Nov 2009Below is the dialogue excerpt between Ria Torres and Dr. Cal Lightman from one of the “Lie to Me” episodes I watched,
Lightman (L): Look, what do you wanna be when you grow up?
Torres (T): I am grown-up.
(L): Terrific. what are you?
(T): I’m–i’m a–
(L): You’re on your way to becoming one of the world’s leading experts in deception. But up here, you’re still a baggage screener at the airport. Till you change that, you’ll always think you’re not ready.
How often we’ve been in similar situation like Torres?
In: inspiration
12 Nov 2009I feared being alone
until I learned to like myself.
I feared failure
until I realized that I only fail when I don’t try.
I feared success
until I realized that I had to try in order to be happy with myself.
I feared people’s opinions
until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.
I feared rejection
until I learned to have faith in myself.
I feared pain
until I learned that it’s necessary for growth.
I feared the truth
until I saw the ugliness in lies.
I feared life
until I experienced its beauty.
I feared death
until I realized that it’s not an end, but a beginning.
I feared my destiny
until I realized that I had the power to change my life.
I feared hate
until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.
I feared love
until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days.
I feared ridicule
until I learned how to laugh at myself.
I feared growing old
until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.
I feared the future
until I realized that life just kept getting better.
I feared the past
until I realized that it could no longer hurt me.
I feared the dark
until I saw the beauty of the starlight.
I feared the light
until I learned that the truth would give me strength.
I feared change
until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergo a metamorphosis before it could fly.
-Anonymous-
In: attitude
3 Nov 2009I like one of the sport shoe commercial tag line, “Nothing is impossible. Impossible is nothing”. The tag line has been few years back though, I’m sure you know or ever heard about it.
First of all, the story I wrote is for sharing purpose which inspired by my own situations.
I’m motivated by the tag line many times but for this time, I need to see the bigger picture of it.
Let’s say that you work on a specific project, your own. For me, I work as web developer in my current office. Sometimes on the other department in your office has lots of projects which due almost in the same time, it was overwhelmed and had a very tight deadline. So, for staff who responsible internally-not dealing with clients-will be assigned to help the project so that deadline can be met. Regardless your initial job scope.
However, though you are assigned “urgent” projects with tight deadline, you will still have your own project deadline. Ha! Interesting huh? Or maybe been this kind of situation before?
Learn a little, share a little, play a little, a little bit of this and that. Hope to inspire others to keep thinking positively.