Loving ourselves

I like this idea when I heard it for the first time. Not everyone can accept this, some of my friend feel that it’s a selfish thing to do. I don’t try to sell this concept, but I think we can think about it. Why? I’d like to use one real world example. When we’re on a plane, the flight attendants will do some demonstration about safety. How we buckle up our belts, point out the emergency exits and it […]

Patience about life

Life will give what we need, not what we want. Everything will come in the right time and place. All we need is patience. And a little bit of wisdom. The wisdom is to know when to let go or when to preserve. To identify what we trully want or what we need from the rest. I used to dream that I’m going to overseas, working and living there, or having scholarship, or making international friends. I used to think […]

Too many should to be happy

Should have a stable job to be happy Should find a boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy Should be on ideal weight to be happy Should have a great body to be happy Should have pretty face to be happy Should get married before 30 Should buy a house after getting married Should eat organic food to be healthy Should go to abroad to be happy Too many should to be happy. Should set expectation to other people and most of all, […]

Meet my first student

I just reading “The Last Lecture” by Randy Pausch. In this book, it mostly about how Randy live his life, his approaches to solve problem, his view, his adventure and his mentors. He shared to the audience, us, how he learned a lot from his football coach, how he met his wife and most of all, how he embrace death. On one of his chapters, he talk about his university life. How he deals with his students which reminds me of […]

Topics of the month

This month I’m trying something new, I will post a series of article that points to same idea. The posts are solely inspired by some books I read recently, “the secret”, “happiness in hard times” series, “opening the door of your heart” and “the last lecture”.

Older or wiser, you choose

This trip was special. I celebrated my birthday with new (close) friends, on another country adventuring. Hong Kong is the fourth country I have my birthday. Usually on my birthday, my mom will cook mee-suah (面线) for me. It’s been a tradition in my family to eat noodles on our special occasion, such as birthday. Noodle means longevity by the way. Since I studied in Melbourne before, my mom can’t do it but she still asked me to make my […]