De-motivator can be defined as: reduce somebody’s enthusiasm: to make somebody feel less interested in working or studying effectively They are exist around us because of many reasons, for example: They are hurt, unhappy, unnoticed, or tired and they just want to vent their unhappiness. They want others to experience their failure or errors, so that they would not feel left out or bad because of their mistakes. Or, simply they just naturally thinking negatively. So, what can we do […]
Category: attitude
anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times
3 signs of complacency
Complacency definition is a feeling of satisfaction, esp extreme self-satisfaction;smugness. Most of us feels that after some time in our life, I believe, whether it’s at school, at home or at work. For example, you may feel save, not be at the bottom of the class, because you know that some of your friend have lower grades than you. When your parents scold you, you will reason because of this or that. So, what are the signs that we need to aware of?
Just for the Thoughts
Reflection of the day: There is no use of buts and ifs, once the work is done. – Anonymous
3 simple tips when facing challenges
What would you think your biggest obstacle in your life? What did you do at that point of time? Or did you run from it? Do your action solve the it? What would you feel after that? Here are 3 tips to keep in mind when you’re facing something big in your life.
Double black
Lesson of the day: Something may not as easy as we thought when we do it ourselves, but it is worth the effort to do it. Last week Saturday, my company was having a team building activity, obstacle course. The course is coded into 4 difficulties level on different sites, and there are 4 sites. Green, blue, red and black are the colors to represent the easiest to the most difficult one. So, why is it exciting?
Forget and forgive
Lesson of the day: No matter how much information you have, if you only keep it for yourself, it will not bring us anywhere. When you read newspaper or listen to radio or skim through some articles on the Internet, you may think for a second that those are not new anymore for you. You may experience it, or know it through other means. It happens to everyone, almost, and it happened to me recently.
Pick your side: Good or bad #2
Lesson of the day: (but) good thing is addictive. Continuing last post… If I associated bad things with negative experience or feeling or something that bring us no good, then I’d like to describe good things as something that will make us feel good about ourselves and, more importantly, will not harm us. For example, when we get a praise on what we had done, or when we receive a good mark for our test.
Pick your side: Good or bad #1
Lesson of the day: bad thing is contagious. My parents used to tell me to surround myself with good friends. They would let me know about their thought if they feel that my friends may influence me with bad things and let me to weigh this myself. What is the good definition? And what is the bad definition? In this post, I will use general word “things” to represent emotion, feeling or influence.