When we play a game, either it’s a puzzle game, strategy game, or RPG game, each time we complete one stage or level, the next one would be slightly more difficult than the previous one. Right? The same analogy with life. After you complete one stage in your life, the next one will be, most likely, more difficult. The challenge comes in different form. And the beauty of it is, you can never expect that you will get the same […]
Category: attitude
anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times
Sometimes life will give you what you need and not what you want
If someone asked you, name 3 things that you want to have right now and it can be anything. What answer would you give? I’m sure, we have bottomless wishes or things that we want to have in life. Whether it’s a status, money or (maybe) someone? Maybe for us who watched Aladdin and the Genie too much, we will be clever enough to have some imagination to ask another 3 more wishes on our last wish. Anyway, when you […]
Will you hold yourself?
Being quite outspoken person, I tend to blurt out some comments when I see something is not right or when people make some biased statement. Maybe for some people they will think that I like to debate or challenge their opinion. But actually I merely can’t stand of knowing that some people are boldly making statement without knowing the entire story. Sometimes they just say “sorry”, but it doesn’t mean that it will always the fixer. Anyway, recently it happens […]
Out leash your energy
Everyone has a bad day. Whether it’s because of some impossible requests from your boss or colleagues that think changing some codes is as easy as changing clothes or simply everything you do just goes wrong, or because of some people doing simple stupid things that annoys you. My recent experience reminds me of a movie I watched few years back, Anger Management. So, here is 5 things that may help when we have that day. 1. Rant it to […]
In finding passion [revisited]
[continuing one of my past post] On my previous post, I wrote about motivation and I feel that one of the element to keep motivated is knowing our passion. I wrote about this too couple of posts before. So, before going further about motivation, I’d like to revisit the passion topic. 2 questions that I often asked myself are: Is this truly what I like to do? Will I stretch myself, when it’s needed, to do this till the end? […]
What motivates you?
Do you ever have some days where you just don’t want to do anything? I’m sure we do. On some point of time in our life, we have days when we are totally unmotivated. Regardless it’s about doing something that we are really like, for example in my case, blogging or taking pictures, or developing websites. (yes, I like to develop beautiful website but I have times when I feel scared and very unwilling to do it). I read quite […]
Defining a perfect day in our life
How do you define a perfect day in our life? Let’s close our eyes, think about it for a second, and start to imagine it. (Okay you have 10 seconds before you continue.. Just kidding :)) A classical scenario for a girl could be, Wake up in the morning, make the bed, having breakfast with her love (or sometimes she just have breakfast outside; a small cafe nearby is nice). Make their own way, to work, or simply stays at […]
In finding passion
In relation with my last post, especially the part when you need to know what is your profession means to you. Many people told me to find something that I like and make it as my job. At that time, I wasn’t really thinking what is the message behind it. After working in the industry I know what it’s like. (To think about it you may like to read this too.) Sometimes you just have a tough day. And one of many fuels […]