One of the three point from my favorite talks is who is the most important person? For you who listened to it before or read my past post must know the answer. Yes, it’s the person you are with at that moment. The person can be a friend (or a group of friends) or even yourself. So, whether you are with a friend, or a group of friends, they are the most important person/people at that time. When we don’t […]
Category: attitude
anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times
Lesson from the road #2
2. Curves and bumps are part of our life. When you drive on a smooth highway, how do you feel? Good. That’s true. But you tend to be sleepy after some time. And it’s dangerous to feel sleepy while you’re driving. So, there are bumps on the road, to help us awake. The ride will not as smooth as the normal road, but we are more aware after that. The same thing with curves along slopes. It slows down our […]
Lesson from the road #1
Recently I had a road trip to Cameron Highland in Malaysia, and it’s a first trip I had with a photography club. So, what did I learn from the trip
Be ready, but take it easy
In my last post, I mentioned that often we are too pushy to ourselves, too demanding and (maybe) less understanding. When people told me to take it easy, sometimes I wonder, how do you define take it easy? Your easy maybe not as easy as you said or maybe less difficult that I imagined. Some people told me quite often recently just do it when you are ready. A little bit contradiction to what I heard when I was a […]
Slow down, buddy!
That’s what my friends told me recently. Sometimes without we realize, we often keep pacing ourselves to do more, to go further, to put in more. There is nothing wrong at all by pushing ourselves. But we have to know that we have our limit. There is no one knows us better than ourselves. Here is a story.
The push we need
Still in relation with what I posted yesterday. When it comes to obstacle in front of us, some see it as a big great wall, while some see it as challenge. Another difference is One is the push we need and the other one is the push we don’t want.
Challenging or tough?
When you have a big obstacle in front of you, what would you think first? Challenging or tough? Our first reaction reflects how we see the obstacle. This post will give you a perspective about the differences of those words when obstacle comes.
Taking turns
Imagine yourself in this scenario (I’m sure it’s not hard to imagine) One morning when you wake up, you have a very foul mood. Feel tired, you want to get back to your sleep but you can’t. You feel that you need to start your routine. On top of that, basically you don’t feel good about yourself. Familiar with the situation? You feel that you are at the bottom part of your life. You don’t feel inspired at all. Everything […]