I read in Mashable that Facebook recently changed their algorithm to display updates from our friends and brand page we like. Some of my friends said they are not surprise since they feel “spammed” in their Facebook feed by bad content. Before reading it, I feel the same way too that the more you interact with a person they more likely it will appear in your news feed. If you have thousands of friends in your list, you may want […]
Category: attitude
anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times
How do I know what I want do?
My friend asked why I can stay in IT line for long time. (Which I don’t think so.. Because I tried a lot of things and didn’t stay long on one specialization) I’m easily bored so I tried different activities from time to time or joined different groups. But there is always a pattern. A pattern that I keep come back to the same activities after trying or hopping to others. So I guess that’s what I actually want to […]
What are you afraid of?
this question is today’s question from a sentence a day project My answer is, regret. I’m afraid if I’m regretting over something because I didn’t give my 100%. I’m aware of it so what happened most of the times was, I tried too many different things to make it work. But sometimes we just need one way and keep working on it.. What do you think?
Which life will you live?
There are infinite possibilities for what our lives can be. but only one reality we can live in. this life is the only one we’ll ever know, why not make it everything you want it to be?
After saying “after”
“I’ll do this after I finished my exam” “I’ll relax and do nothing after this busy month” “I’ll enjoy my life after I’m retired” “I’ll start to exercise after ..” “I’ll be peaceful and relax after taking holiday” “I’ll sleep more after the presentation” And after many “after”s, usually we will be busy again. With something else. So, find your peace, do your activities or get your rest in between your activities. Don’t depend on “after”. I’ll be satisfied after […]
Should we or shouldn’t we
When we say we should, it means we think that we are right and others are wrong. (Or worse, the universe is at fault) And what happened next? Disappointment. The rain should stop because I want to go out. It may happen, but most likely won’t happen. (Unless you’re Bruce Almighty, perhaps) I should be able to find taxi because I’m in a rush. It may happen, but rain comes. (Sometimes, it’s hard to get into a cab when it […]
It will be beautiful
I asked my friend, what if I can’t do well? He said, what if you do well? We often ask ourselves questions which doubting ourselves or worry about the future. Then eventually, that gives us unnecessary stress. When we worry about the future, it means we are finding fault with the future. (AB) We don’t always get what we want, but we will get something else along the way. So it’s a matter how we see it. Isn’t it? If […]
Freeing up our heart space
I heard this terminology from a talk quite a while ago. I didn’t really get what it mean until recently. To give some background about the speaker, he’s a monk and sometimes he has to give counseling to his people. People who has session with him, will throw all their concerns to him. But does he overwhelmed with their stories? He said, he didn’t. The simile that he used is to become rubbish bin without bottom. Sometimes we experienced it […]