When someone do something accidentally or make mistake that leads to disturb you to reach your destination, will you be angry to the person? We are, normally. A well mannered person maybe still be able to control themselves. A “saint” maybe can instantly forgive the mistake. Adding some salt to the wound, sometimes the mistake or accident is made by people who is closed to you because of your close friend. When these kind of situations happen, how would you […]
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Be ready, but take it easy
In my last post, I mentioned that often we are too pushy to ourselves, too demanding and (maybe) less understanding. When people told me to take it easy, sometimes I wonder, how do you define take it easy? Your easy maybe not as easy as you said or maybe less difficult that I imagined. Some people told me quite often recently just do it when you are ready. A little bit contradiction to what I heard when I was a […]
My life, my way
Last weekend I flew back to my hometown to attend one of my best friend’s wedding. And nothing is more exciting than meeting your old pals. It’s been more than 5 years since our graduation. There are a lot of things happened within those 5 years. I used to watch my buddies left my hometown one by one to different cities. And later I did that too; for 1.5 years studying in Melbourne. Some of the common questions that often […]
3 questions to ask when you’re frustrated
Wanting something badly until it frustrates you? I’m sure everyone experienced it at least once in their life. What did you do that time, to make the frustration go away? Did what you do that time make it gone? If you are confuse how to cast the frustration away, here is some checklists (questions that will help):
Phases in our life
One of my girl friends has a lot of polka dots stuffs. One of my male friends commented on her polka dots items. “Why polka dots?”, and she said, “I’m still in polka dots phase.” I like her casual answer for that question.
Are you anticipating too much?
In this post I’d like to share some interesting points that I get after meeting with old friends. I’m quite sure that the story may go quite long and I was thinking to divide it into different posts so that I can talk more about each point. But, I changed my mind, we are all so busy now, let’s keep it short and sweet.
Trap by a routine
My weekly schedule is: Monday is clearing some pending stuffs from last week or new emails on that day. Normally I will feel beaten up after I reach home. Tuesday, I will head to the gym in the morning, before going to office (sometimes needs some coffee or tea to perk me up) and I post a blog after I reach home. Wednesday, it’s time to revise my Japanese, do the homework or simply watch movie and think what should […]
3 activities to find new inspiration
Recently, I have a mind block, again. It’s like a cycle, there are times when you are so full of energy that you believe that you are incredibles; and there are times when you are so down until you don’t know what you really want, I call it total desperation. Well, it’s normal. Everyone has it. Although there are different ways to handle this situation, even for myself sometimes this works and sometimes doesn’t, here is some of the alternatives […]