Get rid of pessimism and boost the confidence up

Some people may always look confident on different situations, like in a party, during presentation, during a meeting with clients or even while hang out with friends. Meanwhile, some other people may look totally the opposite. They don’t look enthusiast, low spirited, try to hide themselves, speak low about themselves. I describe those two based on the book I read before, extrovert (confident) person and introvert (pessimist) person. Even if you feel that you are a confident person, sometimes you may […]

5 ways to free from peer pressure

Recently, one of my friend advised me to stay cool and not to be under pressure since both of our friends just started their relationship. Until he told me that, I didn’t even think about it (the pressure, not about the relationship). Just because people around us doing the same thing, doesn’t mean we are obliged to do the same thing. What do you think? Anyway, the conversation inspire me to write about peer pressure this time. Whether we are […]

Yeah, I’m getting closer to my dream actually

On a recent casual talk with one of my best friends, he asked me whether I have achieve my chilhood dreams. I used to have many dreams. My dreams were changing from time to time although some remains the same. I believe that those which stays are those I want it badly. Back to his question, what are my dreams? It took me a while to recall my dreams.

This is my stuff, get your hand out of it

The most interesting story I heard this week is about when you told someone not to touch your stuff, usually what would they do? The original story I heard was about how a wife outsmart her husband to read a book by telling her husband not to touch her book and a mother who tell her kid not to go to certain place because it was bad for her kid. What happened to the husband and the kid? They think […]

Patience about life

Life will give what we need, not what we want. Everything will come in the right time and place. All we need is patience. And a little bit of wisdom. The wisdom is to know when to let go or when to preserve. To identify what we trully want or what we need from the rest. I used to dream that I’m going to overseas, working and living there, or having scholarship, or making international friends. I used to think […]