When I was young, I was told to treat others like I want others to treat me. Along the way, I don’t see it that way. Doing something good to others doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll receive something good for others. However doing something bad, somehow reciprocal. You’ll get it for sure. I take it that everyone likes kindness so kindness takes longer time to return to you. Everyone likes it so they want to keep it. Unlike bad things, lets […]
Tag: anger
When you’re angry
When either people or things are testing our patience. It’s easy to just vent it out. It’s a relief. Sometimes regret comes after. Because we can’t think clearly. Don’t deny it either. Because you’ll be more furious. Acknowledge it. And say, it’s okay, you’re worth more than this. What’s the big deal. Because there are other big thing which worth your attention and energy more. Be happy! Be peaceful!
When you are angry with someone
Most of the times, when you are angry with someone and you can’t tell them for one or many reasons, you will feel that the anger consumes you from inside, which is not healthy for ourselves. Sometimes too, the other party may not feel our anger (not all people are born to be sensitive with others). They think that everything is okay, despite we show our sour face? Yes, we need to acknowledge that. So, back to the whatever reason […]
On anger and forgiveness
When someone do something accidentally or make mistake that leads to disturb you to reach your destination, will you be angry to the person? We are, normally. A well mannered person maybe still be able to control themselves. A “saint” maybe can instantly forgive the mistake. Adding some salt to the wound, sometimes the mistake or accident is made by people who is closed to you because of your close friend. When these kind of situations happen, how would you […]
Are you the favorite person of anybody?
Recently a friend gave me this youtube link Are you the favourite person of anybody? It’s a short movie yet has some meaning for me. He asked me what was on my thought after I watched this and who do I choose among the three people who were asked that question. You should know about the character I’m talking about after you watch it hehe.. 🙂 As usual, I’ll save my answer for later, and I’m going to share you […]