Life will give what we need, not what we want. Everything will come in the right time and place. All we need is patience. And a little bit of wisdom. The wisdom is to know when to let go or when to preserve. To identify what we trully want or what we need from the rest. I used to dream that I’m going to overseas, working and living there, or having scholarship, or making international friends. I used to think […]
Category: attitude
anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times
Keep positive even if you’re in the middle of a storm
It’s not easy or easily said than done, but the fruit of it is sweet. You may even get something surprising from life. No matter hard it is, you can learn something or make something out of it.
We are what we think
My parents taught me to learn and do some good activities and make it as habit. Once it become your habit, you will do it no matter how hard it seems. I often heard my friends asking, how I can exercise regularly like at least twice a week, and I do it before I’m going to work.
Too many should to be happy
Should have a stable job to be happy Should find a boyfriend/girlfriend to be happy Should be on ideal weight to be happy Should have a great body to be happy Should have pretty face to be happy Should get married before 30 Should buy a house after getting married Should eat organic food to be healthy Should go to abroad to be happy Too many should to be happy. Should set expectation to other people and most of all, […]
Meet my first student
I just reading “The Last Lecture” by Randy Pausch. In this book, it mostly about how Randy live his life, his approaches to solve problem, his view, his adventure and his mentors. He shared to the audience, us, how he learned a lot from his football coach, how he met his wife and most of all, how he embrace death. On one of his chapters, he talk about his university life. How he deals with his students which reminds me of […]
Topics of the month
This month I’m trying something new, I will post a series of article that points to same idea. The posts are solely inspired by some books I read recently, “the secret”, “happiness in hard times” series, “opening the door of your heart” and “the last lecture”.
Measuring sensibility
On recent episode of a TV series I watched, one of the character decided to hide or went missing because she felt that her parents don’t love her as much as her parents care her elder sister and younger sister. Before that, she felt sick all the time, like having cold, fever, and other symptomps. But no medicine can make her mind at ease. Yep, it’s just a psychological inside her mind. And, actually her parents have their reason. Her elder […]
Curiosity re-visited
Lesson of the day: curiosity. Have you ever heard about popular quote that “Curiosity kills the cat”? Hope you heard about it 🙂 I have a scenario. Let’s say that today you have a new colleague and some guests from other overseas office. You was told that there will be dinner with the guests on different date. Your new colleague will have twice while you have only one. Would you be curious, to find out the why?