Category: attitude

anything that helps kartika angkawijaya during hard times, inspires or motivate her to go through those times

33 Questions (Pt2)

I posted this for the first time way back then in 2010. And I decided to do it again, let’s see if I will answer them differently. 1. What Do You Do For A Living? I’m currently working as product information manager. It’s a new path from my previous role. In my day to day activities, I’m managing the projects related to website, working with the business team and the developer. 2. Who Do You Love? My family, my friends, myself […]

What if..

Imagine below situation in your daily life: I plan to cycle tomorrow morning, what if it’s going to rain? I’m thinking to go swimming, what if it’s too sunny and I’ll get sunburn? I’m going to have a test, what if I fail? And guess what, often, the “what if” scenario which I thought of didn’t happen. Which reminds me, Ajahn Brahm used to say, why keep thinking what if things go wrong. What if things go right? *smirk* There are […]

Expectation (Pt 2)

I was supposed to get this out last week, but I was expecting great idea will come out from my head. As a result, nothing comes out.  Or maybe this sounds familiar too: “isn’t it obvious that you can’t tell this information to A. You’re expected to know it.” When I think or expect that other people will know about something or do something, it often ends the other way around, and it makes me upset or frustrated.  Don’t you […]

3 advices from my 3 teachers

I don’t say anything because I saw you were moving okay. If you’re not moving, I will ask you to do it differently when I told my swimming teacher that I feel I’m not moving at all although I kicked so hard. So sometimes we need a mentor/friend in our life because we can’t “feel” our progress and they would be able to see it. Don’t do things you don’t like to happen to you, to other people when going to […]