The day when I didn’t get what I want

On many occasions in my life, I didn’t get what I want. Below are some of the big lost in my life (and some big found too). I hope you bare with me, since it’s going to be a bit long than usual and I hope that you can find these stories helpful.

Failed

The story line

Starting since when I was at my primary school, I was thinking joining school marching band was cool, maybe to play some instruments or do some cool tricks. I registered for it, I was selected, in flag team because I can’t play any musical instruments.

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5 self asking question which help to motivate ourselves

In my previous post, I listed how to tackle bad mood. One of them is recognizing the cause of it (writing my thought down). So, below is a short list of questions which help me to find out the cause.

1. Do I expect too much?

2. Do I enjoy what I’m doing?

3. Do I need it or do I want it?

4. Do I worry about the outcome?

5. Have I really done anything to achieve it?

Thinking

5 possible reasons for you to start blogging

If you ever consider to own a blog and you put it aside afterward then you might like this. The reasons I like to blog are:

1. I like to take notes.

Take Note

I found that taking note helps me to remember the lessons I just learn. Before blogging platforms were popular (or even before the Internet was a hit), I wrote quite a lot from daily activities to fiction. (yes, I even believe that I may be a writer one day) There are times when I need to tidy up my drawer, I saw my notes and I reread them. I found that I was so silly (most of the times) and surprised that I did that. So, those notes are proofs that I grow, learn and mature from day to day. And, knowing that is a prize for me, to keep me to be stronger and wiser.

2. I can straighten my thoughts before any interuptions.

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy to be accompanied, but I lost track after interuptions. Well, I still need to improve my focus too though. This process is like making the thread inside my head straight. I can have many threads inside, and sometimes I work on different threads at once. Thus writing helps me a lot.

3. I like to play with words.

I don’t have particular language or literature studies. But I have great interest in language, I like to learn different way in expressing something.

4. I like to tell stories.

Having younger brother makes me used to tell him about many things.

5. Last one and most important is I wish to inspire others through my writing.

It’s a very big dream for me. It’s tge fact that everyone grows with differently like culture or live on the other side of the world. But there are chances to have similar problem. I always believe that the chances are still quite high. By sharing my thoughts or my experince, I will increase my chance to closer to my dream. I’m working it through.

In conclusion, if you want to have your own blog yet you keep hesitate to start or keep procrastinating, you may want to spend some time to contemplate what are the things that you like. It’s easier to do something that you like. 🙂 Happy blogging!

It’s more than just the cups

I got this story from a mailist I joined, then made a small effort to translate it before I put it here. I like post and I hope you like it as well.

One day, there is a small reunion of some friends who used to work for the same company. Firstly, they started of their career from low bottom and now, most of them have been on a high position in some large companies. Then, someone has the idea to pay a visit to their very first boss of their company, where they used to work together.

One of them contacted their boss and discussed what the best time for them to come is.

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