If someone asked you, how have you been? What is your answer? Good? Not bad? Excellent? Normal? That question is very common to be asked when you meet your friends at early of the week or after you haven’t seen them for awhile, right? Most of people will start to complain when they feel life [...]

Sometime ago I had this conversation with different friends about how we would answer about what do we want to do in the future when we were kids. Some of us would laugh and named some professions, like doctor or engineer. (I don’t know why to become actor or painter or musician is not in [...]

1. You are not defined with you are born with But it’s how you want Smurf born and name like their personality, but although you are the clumsy smurf, you still can be the hero 2. Do your job well Every smurf has a role like their names, and they specialized in it. 3. Do [...]

I used to hear people told me that A problem is not a problem until you acknowledge that it is called a problem Update on 20-09-2011: And most importantly, we call it a problem because there is a way to solve it. So, if you can’t find a solution yet, don’t call it a problem

Few weeks ago I read a blog post wrote by one famous blogger I followed, he mentioned about what would you do when you are supposedly posting something yet you can’t or you are simply experiencing writers’ block. Some of the tips like ask a guest blogger, dig out your past draft post or revisit [...]

That’s what my friends told me recently. Sometimes without we realize, we often keep pacing ourselves to do more, to go further, to put in more. There is nothing wrong at all by pushing ourselves. But we have to know that we have our limit. There is no one knows us better than ourselves. Here [...]

Still in relation with what I posted yesterday. When it comes to obstacle in front of us, some see it as a big great wall, while some see it as challenge. Another difference is One is the push we need and the other one is the push we don’t want.

When you have a big obstacle in front of you, what would you think first? Challenging or tough? Our first reaction reflects how we see the obstacle. This post will give you a perspective about the differences of those words when obstacle comes.

Imagine yourself in this scenario (I’m sure it’s not hard to imagine) One morning when you wake up, you have a very foul mood. Feel tired, you want to get back to your sleep but you can’t. You feel that you need to start your routine. On top of that, basically you don’t feel good [...]

One of my girl friends has a lot of polka dots stuffs. One of my male friends commented on her polka dots items. “Why polka dots?”, and she said, “I’m still in polka dots phase.” I like her casual answer for that question.