Attitude is a little thing that makes big difference

-taken from a reading while I’m on a bus to office- Everybody is the body of the team (work spirit) There is a story of 4 people name, everybody, somebody, anybody and nobody. There was an important job to be done and everybody was asked to do it. Anybody could have done it but nobody did it. Somebody got angry because of that, because it was everybody’s job. Everybody thought that anybody could do it, and nobody realized that everybody […]

Bitter medicine

No one likes to be criticized, in my opinion. While some people like to criticize others. Just take it with open heart. Although it’s not easy. Take it with a pinch of salt too. Some may be true. Maybe what they say is something that we overlook. Listen with your head, not your heart. If it’s true, accept it. If it’s not, take it as something passes by. – me

Advice from my Japanese sensei

Sensei (S): you guys want to improve your Japanese right? But never really practice? *smirk Us (U): *gulp ^^! S: *smile . Well I know that you are may be busy with other things, until you forgot to study. And sometimes you’re too stress until you can’t sleep well at night. U: *nod S: and sometimes studying is too boring right? Well, you should read your notes before you sleep. U: *puzzled S: at least you read something then you’ll […]

Buying iPhone app

Friend (F): hey, aren’t you going to jailbreak your phone? Me (M): nope, why should I? F: so that you can download free app. M: … Someone used to tell me that some people an afford to buy Mercedez Benz, but they fill it with cheap fuel. Why would you buy a Mercedez then? If you can afford the car, it means you should be able to afford the fuel too. So, when you can buy the phone, shouldn’t you […]

Kindness and anger

When I was young, I was told to treat others like I want others to treat me. Along the way, I don’t see it that way. Doing something good to others doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll receive something good for others. However doing something bad, somehow reciprocal. You’ll get it for sure. I take it that everyone likes kindness so kindness takes longer time to return to you. Everyone likes it so they want to keep it. Unlike bad things, lets […]

When you’re angry

When either people or things are testing our patience. It’s easy to just vent it out. It’s a relief. Sometimes regret comes after. Because we can’t think clearly. Don’t deny it either. Because you’ll be more furious. Acknowledge it. And say, it’s okay, you’re worth more than this. What’s the big deal. Because there are other big thing which worth your attention and energy more. Be happy! Be peaceful!